Guest Blog by Beth Willis Miller

Today I have a guest blog from Beth Willis Miller. She once wrote: “I relate everything in my life to my adoption.” She has a heart to help those dealing with issues surrounding adoption and has cowritten a book with Sherrie Eldridge titled, Under His Wings…Truths to Heal, Adopted, Orphaned, and Waiting Children’s Hearts.   

Guest Blog–How I Came To Be—Expect a Mystery By Beth Willis Miller

I met my birthmother, Lydia, in 1983, when I was 30 years old, and Lydia was 72. Lydia explained to me the circumstances of my conception, birth, and adoption.

During a Memorial Day holiday get-away weekend with a gentleman in 1952, Lydia, at age 41, became pregnant with me. When she realized she was pregnant, she told the gentleman with whom she had spent the weekend, and he was unwilling to help her. Her mother, Vincenza, did not want her daughter, a single mother at age 41, to disgrace her family with an illegitimate child, so Lydia left Chicago to live with a relative in Miami, Florida.

In October, around the time of Columbus Day, she went to a back-alley abortionist to abort me, but when the abortionist examined her and realized she was over four months pregnant, he told her the abortion might kill her, and he refused to do it. Lydia made arrangements with the Salvation Army hospital in Jacksonville to give me up for adoption. On Friday the 13th she gave birth to me, and signed the papers giving me up for adoption on Valentine’s Day 1953. I was adopted on Easter weekend 1953 by loving Christian parents.

I grew up in church, active in Sunday School and missions organizations. I prayed to receive Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior at the age of 10, and was baptized by immersion following my salvation.

I believe there are no “accidents” and every conception and every birth is part of God’s Sovereign Plan. I rest and find comfort in these life verses:

“For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.” (Jeremiah 29:11) 

“You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother’s womb. Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! Your workmanship is marvelous—how well I know it. You watched me as I was being formed in utter seclusion, as I was woven together in the dark of the womb. You saw me before I was born. Every day of my life was recorded in your book. Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed.” (Psalm 139:13-16)

I believe God planned who my birth parents would be and who my Mom and Dad would be, and both influences, plus His, are needed to help me become all that He created me to be. I believe that God sees the end from the beginning. He knows me intimately, He knit me together in my mother’s womb, one day I will see Him face-to-face and I will know as I am known…until then, I will expect a mystery.

I practice words like, “I don’t know,” “I will trust,” “I can’t explain,” “I release it all,” because God is sovereign. He is the beginning, He will be the ending, and in between, by His grace, He lets us be part of His perfect plan, for His glory and for our good. In the meantime, I will expect a mystery.

To read Beth’s complete “How I Came To Be…” story, click on this link:

 http://bethwillismiller.blogspot.com/2009/10/conceived-on-memorial-day-almost.html

You can listen to my interview with Beth Willis Miller on Saturday, May 25, 2012 on my radio show, “Hearts Set Free with Elaine” @ 8:00am EST. Go to www.wtis1110.com and press “Listen Live.” Or you can go to the archives on my radio station website by clicking on “shows,” and then “Hearts Set Free.” The archives are on the bottom right of the page.   

 

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About elainecreasman

I am a freelance writer and inspirational speaker. Since 1986 I have led the Suncoast Christian Writers Group.
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One Response to Guest Blog by Beth Willis Miller

  1. Beth Willis Miller says:

    Thank you so-o-o-o much, Elaine! What an honor for you to feature my story on Hearts Set Free ❤

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